Take Off Your Rose Colored Glasses and Appreciate Life For What It Is!

I never could fathom how people got themselves into tricky romantic situations  as a young girl. Maybe, I still had that  mixture of innocence, idealism and a dollop of hope or maybe  I just chose to view the world through rose colored glasses (coincidentally that is also a Kelly Rowland song.) Imagine we all have a pair of those glasses at a young age. I think that as we grow those glasses break and we see the world and the people in it for as they are, NOT as we dreamed. We become disenchanted with those idealized memories and notions.  I don’t see this to be a bad event.  As adults, we may see the world in a different way from our childhood but it isn’t bad.  I’m happier knowing that life is complex. As a kid, you can categorize as right and wrong very easily but as you age your choices become complicated. Truth is, I think those choices were always complicated but youthful minds couldn’t comprehend the magnitude.  I feel better knowing that I understand the complexness of my choices. I like knowing that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.  If life were as simple as it appeared in our romanticized childhood years then life would be terribly boring. Beautiful but boring.

Everything looks beautiful through those rose colored glasses. I also believe that once we truly see things for as they are, we can see their true beauty and to me thats worth it 🙂

As for the point I made at the beginning,  I couldn’t understand why my father left us. Now, I don’t forgive him for doing so but I better understand why.  I also know I couldn’t understand why my first relationship didn’t work out but in time came to understand the complexity of romantic emotions. I don’t pretend to know everything about emotions, only that they aren’t usually rational.  Yates said it best in Brown Penny  “O love is the crooked thing, There is nobody wise enough To find out all that is in it.” We may think we know what we want but  sometimes life surprises us in unexpected ways.  Now I understand how people end up in complicated romantic situations.  I’ve attached two appropriately fitting songs.

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Quote: That’s ♥♥♥♥

Here’s a quotation from a favourite movie from my high school days!

“Do you ever put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that’s what love is like. Everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but you just keep going.” Jilly (Nicole Kidman)  Practical Magic

Quote: Kahlil Gibran

This is why it is important to take time off and find delight in simple pleasures of life 😀

“Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair.” ~Kahlil Gibran

Quote: Chinese Curse

I thank the television show White Collar  — with the very cute Neil Caffrey —  for saying this quote on an episode.  If you get a chance and haven’t seen this show, DO IT!!!  I absolutely love this show!!

White Collar

~~♥♦♠♣ May you live in interesting times and may you find what you are looking for♥♦♠♣ ~~ Chinese Curse

Quote, LOL.

This quotation was on a key chain I bought in high school  from Ardene or Claires.  I don’t know who actually said it but I enjoy the humour 😀

“I’m not fluent in moron, please speak a little slower”

Quote: Helen Keller

“The best & most beautiful things in life cannot be seen, not touched, but are felt in the heart.” ~ Helen Keller

Quote: Nelson Mandela

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” ~Nelson Mandela

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